25 Ways to Practice Gratitude This Holiday Season

The holidays can feel like a sprint, can’t they? Calendars fill up, budgets stretch, and emotions run high. When life gets loud, gratitude gives your mind a soft place to land. It slows stress, steadies your mood, and helps you see what is going right, even on messy days.

Positive psychology backs this up. Regular gratitude practice lowers anxiety, lifts joy, and supports better sleep and relationships. Start small and stay consistent, and those small moments stack up into a real mindset shift. If you want a simple routine you can keep year round, you can explore more on making gratitude a daily habit.

This guide offers 25 practical ideas, grouped into five clear categories so you can pick what fits your life. You will find quick personal rituals, family-friendly moments, acts of community kindness, mindful gifting ideas, and gentle year-end reflection prompts. Think of it as a menu, not a mandate. Choose one today, then add another when you are ready.

Why does this matter right now? Gratitude nudges your brain to notice resources, not only problems, which boosts resilience and calm. It also deepens connection, since saying thanks makes both giver and receiver feel seen. That is the heart of the season, after all.

25 Ways to Practice Gratitude This Holiday Season

So take a breath. Make space for one simple practice, then repeat it tomorrow. A sticky note on the fridge, a two-minute note of thanks, a quick pause before dinner, each counts. You are capable of building steady joy, one small choice at a time.

Ready to reduce stress, feel more present, and protect your peace? Let’s get you set up with easy wins you can use today, share with your family, and carry into the new year. Small steps, big impact. You have this!

Start Your Day with Simple Gratitude Rituals

Mornings shape your mindset. A calm start can steady you for full calendars, travel, and family dynamics. Use these quick rituals to shift from rush to presence. They take minutes, lower stress, and help you notice what is working before the holiday noise kicks in. For more structure, explore tips on building a positive morning routine.

List Three Things You’re Thankful For Upon Waking

Before your feet hit the floor, name three specifics. Think cozy blankets, a full fridge, or the smell of cinnamon. Write them on a bedside notepad to beat the to-do list.

  • How-to: Keep a pen and small pad by your bed. Jot three lines.
  • Holiday tie-in: Name today’s joy, like the cousin you will see or the pie you will bake.
  • Benefit: You start with gratitude, not pressure, which lifts mood and focus.

Sip a Warm Drink While Reflecting on Small Joys

Hold your coffee or tea with both hands and pause. Let heat cue you to slow down. Scan for tiny joys, like twinkling lights or a quiet house before kids wake.

  • How-to: Take five slow sips, each paired with one small joy.
  • Holiday tie-in: Picture a favorite tradition, then savor it for one breath.
  • Benefit: Builds mindfulness and reduces morning stress.

Write in a Gratitude Journal About Holiday Anticipations

Set a five-minute timer. Capture what excites you about the season, not what you fear.

  • How-to: Use prompts like, “I am looking forward to…” or “I will honor my energy by…”
  • Holiday tie-in: Note gatherings, music, or giving plans that feel life-giving.
  • Benefit: Channels attention toward hope and intention, not overload.


Stretch and Breathe Deeply, Appreciating Your Body’s Strength

Give your body thanks for carrying you through the season’s tasks.

  • How-to: Reach tall, side stretch, forward fold, then three belly breaths.
  • Holiday tie-in: Picture lifting boxes, decorating, or baking with ease.
  • Benefit: Increases energy, lowers tension, and supports pain management.

Affirm Daily Blessings Out Loud

Words set the tone. Speak them.

  • How-to: Say, “I am grateful for my loved ones. I choose peace today.”
  • Holiday tie-in: Add a specific name or event you will honor today.
  • Benefit: Trains your brain for optimism and boosts confidence. For context on holiday gratitude, see Gratitude Rituals During the Holidays.

Build Connections Through Shared Gratitude Moments

Holidays are about relationships. When you create space to say thanks together, you strengthen trust, ease tension, and build memories you will talk about next year. Try these simple, people-first practices to add warmth and meaning to your gatherings.

Share Thanks Around the Dinner Table

Start a quick circle before dessert. Each person names one gratitude, then passes it on. Keep it specific and short.

  • Say, “I’m grateful my sister checked on me during finals.”
  • Invite kids to share too, even one word.
  • Repeat it each gathering to build a tradition.

Outcome: more laughter, calmer energy, and stories that last. For ideas that honor tradition, explore these cherished family holiday traditions.

Exchange Handwritten Thank-You Notes

Set a stack of simple cards by the door. Write two lines to your host or a guest.

  • Name the moment: “Your cranberry sauce tasted like home.”
  • Add one impact: “Your invite helped me feel included.”

Outcome: people feel seen, and your note becomes a keepsake.

Call or Video Chat Distant Relatives with Appreciation

Schedule two short check-ins this week. Keep it focused on thanks.

  • Lead with a memory: “Your ride to my interview changed my year.”
  • Pause and let them respond.

Outcome: miles shrink, closeness grows. For more family-focused ideas, see 5 Gratitude Practices to Try With Your Family Over the Holidays.

Play a Gratitude-Sharing Game During Get-Togethers

Make a bowl of prompts. Everyone draws one and shares.

  • Prompts: “A small kindness I noticed,” “A tradition I love,” “A lesson I’m grateful for.”
  • Keep it light, clap after each share.

Outcome: easy fun that sparks deeper conversation.

Offer Sincere Compliments and Hugs Freely

Notice effort, not perfection.

  • Try, “Your gift wrap is gorgeous, and your care means a lot.”
  • Pair words with a hug or a gentle hand squeeze.

Outcome: instant warmth, steady bonds, and more joy in the room. Keep going. Connection builds one thank you at a time.

Spread Joy with Acts of Kindness and Giving

Giving multiplies gratitude. When you share time, energy, or resources, you feel your own abundance more clearly. Kindness brightens someone’s day, then bounces back as pride, calm, and purpose. Use these simple, community-focused actions to spark that win-win feeling this season.

Volunteer Time at a Local Event

Sign up for a charity run, a toy drive, or a seasonal food distribution. Short on hours? Pick a single shift and show up ready to help.
Try this quick plan:

  1. Register online and read the volunteer briefing.
  2. Pack gloves, water, and a warm layer.
  3. Afterward, jot two impact notes, who you helped and how it felt.

That short reflection cements the memory and builds gratitude you can revisit on tough days.

Donate Gently Used Items to Those in Need

Do a 20-minute sweep of closets and toy bins. Sort by condition, then clean and bag items for a shelter or mutual aid group. Keep a simple filter, would I gift this to a friend? As you pack, notice what you have enough of. That awareness shifts you into thankful mode fast.

Perform Random Kindness for Strangers

Small gestures go far during crowded weeks. Pay for a coffee, hold a door, return a cart, leave a kind note on a windshield. Keep a few dollar bills or sticky notes in your bag so it is easy to act. For more low-lift ideas, browse these random acts of kindness ideas.

Support Local Shops with Thankful Words

Buy a gift or treat from a neighborhood store, then tell the owner what you appreciate, long hours, fair pricing, or the cozy vibe. Leave a short review that names one highlight. Your purchase supports a dream, and your words boost morale during the busiest stretch.

Compliment Service Workers Extra Warmly

Look cashiers, baristas, and delivery drivers in the eye. Thank them by name if you can. Be specific, “Your calm helped this line move so well.” Add a tip when possible. Kind feedback fuels reciprocal happiness, and kindness spreads, as shared in insights on the power of kindness in the holidays. Keep going, your care counts!

Reflect and Recharge with Holiday Mindfulness

Pressure builds in December. Reflection helps you slow the pace, protect your peace, and avoid burnout. Think of these practices as a reset button. Each one invites you to notice goodness, release what hurts, and carry forward what matters.

Fill a Gratitude Jar with Daily Notes

Place an empty jar on your counter. Each evening, write one slip that starts with “Today I’m grateful for…” Keep it small and specific. Add the date, then fold and drop it in.

  • On New Year’s Eve, pour them out and read aloud, either solo or with family.
  • Let patterns teach you what brings steady joy.

Mental health perk: this builds positive recall, which can ease anxiety and lift mood. For ideas to get started, explore a simple family gratitude jar activity.

Review the Year’s Highlights Gratefully

Set a 20-minute timer. Make two columns: Achievements and Lessons. List five wins, then five hard moments that grew you. Add one sentence of thanks for each item.

  • Ask, what did this teach me, and how will I use it next year?
  • Save the page in your planner for a quick boost in January.

Mental health perk: naming meaning in challenges supports growth and reduces rumination.

Assemble a Photo Album of Joyful Memories

Pick your favorite holiday snaps from the year. Create a small printed book or a private digital album. Caption each image with one sentence of thanks, “Thankful for laughter in the kitchen.”

  • Keep it simple, 20 to 30 photos is plenty.
  • Schedule a New Year’s Day browse as a calm, happy ritual.

Mental health perk: visual gratitude reinforces positive emotion and counters stress. For more context on mindful holiday practices, see this guide on embracing mindfulness and gratitude this holiday season.

Practice Forgiving Past Hurts

Open your journal. Write three letters you will not send: one to yourself, one to someone who hurt you, and one to the season itself if it feels heavy. State what happened, what you felt, and what you release.

  • Close with, “I choose peace, and I am moving forward.”

Mental health perk: forgiveness reduces anger and lowers stress load.

Set Thankful Intentions for the Coming Year

Start with what you already appreciate. Write three intentions rooted in today’s blessings, “I am grateful for family dinners, so I will protect one tech-free meal each week.”

  • Make them specific, time-bound, and doable.

Mental health perk: gratitude-based goals increase follow-through and build hope. Keep it light, keep it honest, and keep going. You are building a calmer year, one mindful choice at a time.

Make Gratitude Your Daily Habit

Gratitude works best when it is simple, consistent, and personal. You now have a clear mix of quick rituals, shared moments with loved ones, small kindness in the community, and mindful reflection that helps you reset and breathe. Pick two ideas and do them today, you will feel your mood lift and your stress ease.

Start a journal tonight, one short line before bed is enough. Keep repeating the same few practices this week, then carry them into January so the benefits stack, calmer days, better sleep, and stronger relationships. If you want a next step that keeps you focused, explore these easy ways to express gratitude and keep your momentum going.

Your presence is the real gift, to yourself and to others. Thank you for reading and caring for your peace. What will you try first, and how will you keep it going? Share your wins so we can cheer you on.

Michelle D. Garrett is the founder of Divas With A Purpose.