What’s the best advice you’ve ever received? I can honestly say that I am thankful for advice given to me from those wanting to help me grow and learn over the years. I am, also, thankful for those that realized that rather than advice, what I really needed was a chance to rant, release and move on. Having people in your life that are willing and able to let you do just that when necessary is fantastic.
The times I have been given the best advice it was given honestly, straight-forward and with love. I did not feel as though I was being chastised or judged. It was from the heart and it was genuine.
When receiving advice and trying to determine if it is best for me or not, I typically consider:
- the source – is this someone who is trustworthy and reliable?
- the intentions – is this advice with a catch or is it genuine?
- my gut instinct – do I feel hesitant when acting on the advice or does it feel right?
When have you been most thankful for advice?
Each Thursday on Divas With A Purpose, we pause to reflect on what we’re thankful for. Gratitude is a huge part of my life. A few years ago I made a conscious decision to reflect more on what I had versus what I did not have – since then I have seen a considerable positive change in my attitude and demeanor even in stressful situations. I encourage my supporters to take a moment to think about what they have to be thankful for. Feel free to share below in the comments – you never know how you’ll inspire and motivate someone else.
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Julie@Momspective says
The best advice I was ever given was by my Social Studies teacher. He said to keep the peace never talk about religion or politics.
Ashley S says
I’m always thankful when my BFF gives me advice. He’s brutally honest… and sometimes it hurts to hear… but I need it, and I need to hear it. It’s the only way for him to drill it into my head, lol.
LaQuita says
I love getting advice, especially from the ones I love. The ones that actually know me and accept whatever is going on in my life without judgement. I’m blessed to have a handful of people I can talk to and get great advice from, definitely people I am thankful for!
familynlifelv says
Yes, I am thankful for advice. I need a sounding board, and it comes with advice – I am happy. It is through advice of friends and my mom I have the ablity to make the right choices for my family
valmg @ Mom Knows It All says
Even if I choose not to follow the advice I am usually grateful for it if someone has taken the time to share their thoughts on something constructively with me.