The Importance of Girlfriends’ Getaways
Last month I went on a much-needed girlfriends’ getaway with fellow blogger Natasha of Houseful of Nicholes. It was part work but mostly a time for us to just disconnect and BE. I’m thankful to Visit Milwaukee who hosted us and will be sharing sights and insight from our trip over the next few weeks. If you’re on Instagram, you can get a sneak peak from my #VisitMKE InstaStories Series. I promise we did more than eat – even though it’s hard to tell from my InstaStories!
I’ve shared before the importance of girls trips in my life – a tradition that goes all the way back to childhood when my mother and aunts would vacation together for a week each summer. There’s power in female relationships and friendships and I’m thankful for the ones I have in my life. My Divas have been lifesavers on so many occasions during the many stages of my life. Our relationships have shifted and changed over the years but I’m blessed to have a core circle of female friends that I can count on to be there at a moment’s notice.
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The Power of Female Friendships
With the many roles we carry in our lives, it’s easy to grow a little too comfortable in our friendships. We get busy. We assume we’ll catch up later. That’s one reason regular girlfriends’ getaways matter so much. They give us space to check in with one another. No little ones nearby. No husbands waiting in the other room.
The itinerary is usually relaxed. If someone wants to stay in or skip an activity, there’s no judgment at all. We all understand the need to have some quiet time all to ourselves. Or partake in Happy Hour at 11 AM. It’s all about what makes your heart happy.
Not Everyone Has a Built-In Circle
Not everyone has a built-in circle of girlfriends they can call up for a weekend away, and that’s okay too. If you’re craving connection but your core group is scattered, busy, or just not into travel, there are experiences designed specifically for women who want that same energy and sisterhood. Retreat-style gatherings like Camp Social bring women together for intentional connection, shared experiences, and time to simply be. It’s a beautiful reminder that you don’t have to wait for the “perfect” group to prioritize yourself and meaningful friendships.
When Face-to-Face Connection Makes All the Difference
This most recent trip with Natasha was different for a few reasons. Blogging brought us together but it’s definitely not the thread that keeps us connected. Our children are in similar stages of lives. We are both oldest daughters. And we don’t let others in too easily but when we do – you’re basically stuck with us like it or not. Typically when we’re traveling together it’s because we’re attending a blogging conference and work is a priority. We don’t have as much time to just relax, enjoy the city or each other’s company. We talk over the phone almost daily but sometimes you need to be face-to-face with someone who gets it and knows when you just need to release – no judgement or sense of needing to fix things.
Over the next few weeks I will be sharing how girlfriends’ getaways can help you to strengthen your friendship, rejuvenate your soul and recognize when a friend may be in need. I will also be sharing some of the amazing sights and experiences of Milwaukee, Wisconsin (my first time visiting the state!). I left knowing that I needed to return with my family and that it would be a great place to visit with just my husband. I’m also trying to convince Natasha that she MUST find a way to send me the scrumptious carrot cake I devoured from Milwaukee Public Market. Any and all support in this endeavor will be appreciated!
