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Easy Relaxation Tips for Busy Divas

It’s the first weekend of a new year and this diva is worn out! My kiddos are prepping for back to school and we have done tons of running around during the holidays.

It seems like there is no rest of the weary. And, the weary person is usually us, divas. We often take care of or coordinate all things home and family, but are we making sure we are taking care of us? If you are a busy mom, learn to value yourself as a person and schedule personal time.

6 Easy Relaxation Tips

Personal time is necessary for us all. Each of us has the capacity to nurture others but that type of care takes its toll on us – mentally, physically and emotionally.

A car is filled with gas to make it run. Eventually the gas runs out and your car won’t move unless the car is replenished with fuel. The same goes for you. Emotional issues can develop when you don’t take the time to take care of your emotional well-being, not to mention the physical results of emotional neglect.

Mom time refuels the tank so that you can give to your family as well as yourself in equal measure. Don’t be ashamed to sit for fifteen minutes doing nothing. In the springtime, relaxing in a hammock under a tree is the perfect getaway from the pressures of the day. Reading a book for 30 minutes can also seem like heaven to many moms.

6 Easy Relaxation Tips

Here are a few tips to help you fit in much needed “mom” time:

1. Get up early if you have to. When you have kids, the day begins at a hurried pace. Once you hit the ground running, there is no stopping you. Waking 30 minutes to an hour ahead of time means quiet solitude to drink your coffee, read a book, meditate or listen to music.

Relaxation Tips: Turn ordinary experiences into major events

2. Turn ordinary experiences into major events. When you take a bath, add candles, bubble bath, quiet music and/or an inflatable bath pillow. Your regular bath has now become a spa level experience. If you watch a movie, turn out the lights, pop a bag of microwave popcorn and curl up on the couch.

3. Ask your significant other for help. Kids love their mothers but time spent with dad is important too. Let them bond with dad while you go shopping for a new outfit or root around in the garden. Since the time is yours, do whatever you like.

4. Use the Boy Scout motto. Always be prepared and you can spend more time in a relaxed mode. Fix lunches the night before. Iron clothes for the next day and place backpacks by the front door so kids can grab them on their way out. The fewer things you have to do throughout the day, the calmer you will be with your family and not experience burnout.

5. Take exercise breaks. When you get a few minutes the last thing you want to do is exercise but getting a little physical activity in your day has far-reaching implications. Exercise helps you to think clearly and stretches the muscles. Also, stress will drain away as powerful endorphins are released into your system. Do jumping jacks during a television commercial or jog to the bus stop to pick up the kids.

Relaxation Tips: Laugh at regular intervals

6. Laugh at regular intervals. Keep a funny calendar cube on your desk or subscribe to a daily joke site. Laughing releases stress and can lift your spirits significantly. It also keeps the abs tight.

Divas, please make sure you take care of you. Your family would miss you if you were not around to love and care for them. You owe it to yourself and you deserve a break from the daily hustle and bustle.

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Tuesday 7th of January 2014

I like these tips! Especially the one about exercise and laughing. I am most productive early in the morning after getting my son off to school.

Kenya G. Johnson

Sunday 5th of January 2014

Great post Michelle. Everything begins again for us tomorrow. I wonder if I can turn my 5:45 am to 5:00. I am going to set my NEW alarm time. Wish me luck. I don't know what's going to make me sit down and relax in a bath. I've never been able to do it. I get restless even if I'm reading a good book.


Sunday 5th of January 2014

Awesome tips! I can't wait to get my kid back to school these last few weeks with both son and bf home was LONG hahaha Need some me time!

Le-an Lacaba

Sunday 5th of January 2014

I'd love to recommend this to my mom, who has been stressed out since Haiyan. She deserves the RandR!

Annie Mai

Sunday 5th of January 2014

Great tips not just for moms, but for most females in general! I like to wake up early to enjoy some quiet time without the hubs :P

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