Exactly what is a diva? For different people it brings up different connotations – positive and not-so-positive.
For me, being a diva is not about dressing in the newest styles or being flashy or sassy. For me being a diva has nothing to do with my external appearances. My “divatude” is an attitude. A way of living, thinking and being.
Driven.
My divatude starts with me being strongly motivated to succeed in my personal, professional, and spiritual endeavors. To want to be better then I was the day before. To learn from and build upon the mistakes I’ve made in my past. To be a role-model for those around me by sharing my experiences and knowledge when possible.
Inspired.
To be inspired is to become passionate about something. To truly care about a group, an ideal, a cause, etc. Helping and empowering others is what inspires me. I am who I am because someone cared enough to sprinkle wisdom and love on me – many times not even realizing they were offering me a life line.
Victorious.
I don’t claim defeat. I walk in victory and the knowledge that I know who I am and I know WHOSE I am. When life throws me obstacles (and believe me, it has and is!) I keep a smile on my face, focus on what I can change and keep pressing forward. I try not to worry or dwell on things I cannont change because it won’t change the situation. However, by focusing on what I can directly affect – often other issues are solved or alleviated as a domino effect.
Action.
Words are great. Dreams are wonderful. Action gets things done! I strive to not only talk the talk, but to, also, walk the walk. I admit my shortcomings and try to commit to changing those things that need to be worked on.There you have it, Divas! That’s what my divatude is all about and I encourage you to discover and embrace your inner diva, too!
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Chasing Joy says
That’s great. The word Diva can have a negative connotation. I love this 100% positive spin.
cham says
Thank you for sharing about this… Looking forward to being a DIVA myself… Cheers! 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Michelle Garrett says
So true Leaza! It has definitely sustained me throughout some storms. Thanks for your insight and stopping by!
Michelle Garrett says
Embrace it, you wonderful Diva, you!!! Thank you for stopping by!
Michelle Garrett says
Glad I was able to provide some inspiration 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Exactly! Thanks for stopping by!
Michelle Garrett says
Sounds awesome!!! I'll definitely be paying you a visit soon 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Ha Ha! I figured being rich and famous wasn't going to happen anytime soon so I had to bring the divatude to my level 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Glad you stopped by! Thanks Meredith!
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you!!!
Michelle Garrett says
Awesome! Appreciate the kind words…feel free to chime in anytime 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Welcome Jessica 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks Krystle!
Michelle Garrett says
Definitely 🙂 Thanks so much for stopping by!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks Tricia!!!
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you Colleen!
Classic NYer says
I love your attitude! I love, love, love your attitude!
Leaza in Denver says
Great post! Happy SITS day!Your "diva" definition is important to remember during the happy times — but more importantly during the tough times. Very inspiring!
Tracy Larson says
Here from SITS! I am now embracing my inner Diva. Thank you!
GrowingTweenMom says
Reading this makes me want to have my own mission statement. How brilliant it is to claim your values and consider them seriously in your everyday life!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks! Often times I get as much – if not more – encouragement from those I come cross paths with.
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you so much Kristin! Welcome to DWP 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks! Strut that divatude on and off the stage…it's in you 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks! Glad we were able to connect! Have a fantastic week!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks as always Whitney!
Michelle Garrett says
LOL!!! Love your perspective – you so very right!!! Thanks for stopping by 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you!
Michelle Garrett says
Come on – jump on the diva bandwagon!
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
Michelle Garrett says
Welcome back! Blessings to you as well!
Michelle Garrett says
We're all a work in progress – my divatude definitely has it's up and down days!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks! Glad it was able to provide you some inspiration. Enjoy the rest of your week!
Michelle Garrett says
Appreciate you stopping by!
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you!
Christine says
I love your definition of a diva! Especially that the last aspect – action. It's great to be inspired and driven but you're right, a diva needs to act on that passion.
Ilene, The Fierce Diva Guide to Life says
I LOVE your definition of DIVA! My blog is called the Fierce Diva Guide To Life and like you, to me, Diva is about an attitude of poise, strength, passion, and generosity. So nice to meet a fellow Diva!
Cynthia says
Terrific post…I always wondered how to be a Diva! I thought I needed to be rich. 🙂 Thanks for the insight.
Michelle Garrett says
Glad it provided some motivation and inspiration. Enjoy the rest of your week!
Michelle Garrett says
And I love your blog title! Definitely will be checking it out 🙂
Michelle Garrett says
Thank you! When I think of the many people that have had an impact on my life in one way or the other, it's awesome to realize so many people cared enough to just mentor, speak kind words or just be there for me. Thanks for chiming in!
Michelle Garrett says
Thanks Shelley-Lynne! I'm glad it was instilled at me at an early age that what's inside counts so much more than what's on the outside!
Meredith says
Found you via SITS–awesome acronym!
tragicsandwich.com says
What a fantastic attitude! And congratulations on your SITS day!
Jessica Oatman says
awesome!! visiting from SITS!!
Tricia says
Love this – so inspiring.Happy SITS day!
Colleen says
Hi! Stopping by from SITS today. I love the positive spin you've put on being a Diva. Great blog.
Kristin Leamy says
LOVE this. LOVE LOVE LOVE. I want to shout this to everyone I know. You have gained a new follower in me – your positive attitude is contagious and I love it!
Amy says
Happy SITS Day!
denisemalloy.com says
I can tell I'm going to like this blog! Stopping by from SITS. Look forward to more inspiration!
bymochachic says
That is awesome! I love this…
agapewoman says
Happy SITS Day again!!!
krystle says
Great message!!
2busy says
Happy SITS Day, you DIVA! 😉 I do love your definition of a DIVA. So much more acceptable.
jamie says
Lovely post, Michelle. Now I wanna be a diva too 😉
organizedisland.com says
Love the website and the purpose! Today I am visiting from SITS, but I have been here before :)Have a blessed week!
Student Mommy says
Awesome.In from SITS
JDaniel4's Mom says
I love the passion you write with. Stopping from SITS!
misssrobin says
Knowing who you are and what you want to do with your life is powerful. It's wonderful that you encourage others to figure this out for themselves, too.
jamie @ [kreyv] says
Love this! And, it's a great message for a Monday morning! Thanks for sharing your blog today!
Julie Jordan Scott says
Yes, Yes, Yes a powerful yes to DivaTude!Its intriguing… I can strut the DivaTude on stage, but when I'm off… I sometimes forget. Thanks for the reminder & happy SITS day!!
Michelle @Radiant Brown Beauty says
Yes I agree! It's not just about being a woman who thinks her ish don't stink. It's about self love and reflecting that love without being arrogant.
Anna says
Love this!!
anotherjennifer says
I absolutely love this post! I definitely embrace my diva. Happy SITS Day!
mom2kmjx2 says
Thats great!! Something I really need to work on. Thanks!!
doseofreality says
Love it! What a fantastic, inspiring post! Happy SITS day! 🙂
Mothering From Scratch says
{Kathy} I, too, am thankful for the "sprinklers" in my life. Great attitude!
Shelley-Lynne Domingue says
I like that! The best of us is what we bring out from within. Nice. 🙂