#BudgetingDivas: Creating An Effective Budget

Are you broke?

While it’s not one of my favorite words, it’s one that many use to describe their financial outlook and, honestly, often it is tied to a “brokenness” in other areas of their lives as well.

Years ago I stopped using the term “broke” but that does not mean there have not been some seriously lean days in our budget.  It took some creative accounting on our part some days, but over time our family adopted a budget and savings plan that worked for us.

Not Easily Broken: Read More On Why I Don’t Use The Term “Broke” By Clicking Here

I have not always kept a budget – even though I grew up in a household where my mother was the best role model ever on how to manage money. I had to go through some rough financial times, make some silly and costly mistakes and find my own footing to realize the importance of budgeting, saving and a frugal lifestyle.

Please do not be intimidated by the word “frugal” – I still have fun, go out, enjoy family vacations, make splurge purchases – I do so within a budget and in the most economical way possible.

Budgeting Divas: A Simple Guide to Saving, Making and Managing Money

Creating An Effective Budget

The best way to acquire financial security is to have a sound budget. With a realistic budget, you can have more money to plan that vacation or buy that awesome big screen TV with the surround sound system. In order to indulge in these luxuries without utterly destroying your bank account, you need a budget.

Not to worry, though!  It’s not as bad as it sounds. It’s actually quite simple.

#BudgetingDivas: Simple Steps to creating an effective budget

How Much Do I Make?

The backbone of any budget is based on how much you make. Even if your income is lower than you’d like, you can still budget successfully, but it’s important to know what you have to work with in order to create a balanced budget.

When budgeting, it’s critical that you use your net income as opposed to the gross, that is, the amount after all deductions and taxes. Doing so will give you a more accurate representation about what you have today, factoring in what the government takes as deductions. This will also give you a more accurate estimate of your tax refund as well.

For all practical purposes, what is being deducted from your paycheck is money that isn’t yet available to spend. Then when you file your tax return, treat the refund like a bonus.

If you have a variable paycheck, using a close estimate should suffice in most situations. A realistic estimate can be gathered by totaling your income from the past 3-6 months, and then divide by the income you received in that time.

What are my Fixed Expenses?

There’s no way around it; we all have bills to pay. Some bills vary from month to month, but there are others that are constant. Many loans are structured so you pay the same amount every month. For example, your car or home payments are fixed expenses. Rent and cable bills are also usually the same amount every month.

Some examples of common fixed expenses are:

  • Mortgage or rent
  • Car payments
  • Car insurance
  • Property taxes
  • Home insurance
  • Loans and lines of credit

Action Item: Take some time to make a list of your fixed expenses and total the result.

What are my Variable Expenses?

This is where making a budget gets a little bit tricky. Not every bill is the same amount every month. You don’t always spend the same amount at the grocery store or on gasoline. It’s easy with the fixed expenses, but here there is room for error. Use an average amount of each variable expense for your budget.

The good thing about variable expenses is that you can change them. As you’ll see, reducing these variable charges is a great way to keep more of your hard earned cash.

Some examples of common variable expenses are:


  • Car maintenance
  • Gas
  • Food
  • Electricity
  • Heating

Action Item: Take a few minutes to list your variable expenses and total the result. A good strategy is to go through your recent credit and debit card purchases to see where your money is going.

What are Non-Essential Expenses?

There will always be things that we want, but don’t necessarily need. These types of purchases fit into the non-essential expenses. The difficulty here, is that we often confuse what we want with what we need.

A good test of willpower before making any purchases over, say, $50 is to ask yourself: “Is this a want or a need?”

If you can’t answer that question honestly, then give yourself 24 hours to think about it before making a decision.

Some examples of non-essential expenses are:

  • Excessive amounts of clothing and shoes
  • Entertainment (i.e. DVDs, movies, books, magazines)
  • Video games
  • Eating out
  • Excessive gift purchases
  • “Stuff” you buy because it’s on sale

Action Item: Make a list of non-essential expenses and their total. Ask yourself: Do I need everything on this list? Is there anything I can cut out without losing the lifestyle I desire?

Priorities Bring Focus: Head Here For The Four Steps My Family Uses To Maintain Financial Peace & Harmony

What are my Total Expenses?

Write down all your fixed, variable, and non-essential expenses and add up the total.
This total will be your base expenditure for the month.

This is the bare minimum you’ll need to make in order to have a balanced budget. If you make more, that’s great. If you don’t make more, then go back and look at your variable and non-essential expenses, like entertainment, new clothes, or even your grocery or electricity bill, and find ways to lower these charges.

Earn More Than You Spend

The only way to create a workable budget is to adhere to this one simple rule: Earn more than you spend.

Obviously your goal is to earn a whole lot more than you spend, but if the numbers are close, that’s okay; you can still work with that, but a wide gap would be ideal.

The full #BudgetingDivas Interactive Session includes a section on cutting costs and boosting income.

Budgeting Divas Creating A Budget Self Reflection | Divas With A Purpose